help & support for beginners on social media
At 55, I jumped into TikTok, Instagram, and YouTube with absolutely no clue where to begin—and I know I’m not the only one. Social media can feel intimidating at any age. Whether you're worried about looking silly, being judged, or just feeling overwhelmed by all the “do this in three steps” advice that doesn’t make sense, this space is for you.
When I started in September 2025, I was completely lost. I saved videos, scribbled notes, Googled everything—and ended up with piles of scattered information and a head full of confusion. So I began documenting every single thing I did. That’s what this page is all about: sharing those notes, resources, and real-life lessons to make it easier for others who feel just like I did.
Here, you’ll find practical guides, honest tips, and step-by-step help to get you started. I’ll continue to upload new documents and tools to support you. And if there’s something specific you need help with, send me a message at the bottom of this page—I’ll reply with a date when the info will be available online.
You’re not too old.
You’re not too late.
You’re just getting started—and I’m here to walk with you every step of the way.
Platform #1: TikTok
I decided to start with TikTok. So for now, most of the content on this page will focus on that platform. Why TikTok? Because it’s where I first dipped my toes into the world of social media—and wow, did I underestimate how much there is to learn.
From simply posting a photo with text and music (which sounds easy but isn’t) to figuring out how to film face-to-camera videos and eventually going live, it’s a lot. The learning curve is steep, and the tutorials online often assume you already know the basics. I didn’t.
That’s why I’m breaking it all down here—step by step, with no jargon, no pressure, and no judgment.
Posting Photos
When I first started on TikTok, I thought posting a simple photo with text and music would be a breeze. Turns out, even the basics can be surprisingly tricky! Choosing the right image, matching it with words that matter, and finding music that sets the mood—all while learning the ins and outs of the app—was a real challenge. But this is how my journey began: experimenting, making mistakes, and slowly building the courage to share my story, one post at a time.
Those early posts were far from perfect, but they taught me the power of showing up and trying something new. I realised that every step—no matter how small—was progress. If you’re starting, know that it’s okay to feel lost. I’m here to break down the process, share what I’ve learned, and help you get comfortable with the basics, without any pressure or jargon.
Face to Camera
Moving from photos to face-to-camera videos was a whole new adventure. Hitting “record” and speaking directly to my audience felt intimidating, but it was also incredibly rewarding. Announcing my first live session was a milestone—proof that even the steepest learning curves can be conquered with patience and practice. The journey from silent posts to live interaction has been complicated, but every minute has helped me grow in confidence and connection.
Going live on TikTok opened up a world of real-time support and community. It’s not just about mastering the technology—it’s about sharing honest moments, learning together, and celebrating every win. If you’re ready to leap, I’ll guide you through each step, so you can find your voice and connect with others who get it. This journey is challenging, but it’s absolutely worth it—and you don’t have to do it alone.
